As a gay dad, teaching my son to celebrate the LGBTQ community has been a top priority from the beginning. Doing so not only ensures he feels proud of his own family, but it also reinforces the compassion I want him to show to others, including those that are bullied or excluded because of who they are or who they love.
Once again, pop culture has proven to be a fun and creative tool to introduce my son to all manner of colorful, queer characters. Not surprisingly, they made their way onto quite a few of the notes I put in my kid’s lunchbox, which I’ve pulled together in this list of LGBTQ superheroes.
Some of these may come as a surprise, as they are depicted as LGBTQ in certain media but not in others. Unfortunately, few are clearly and consistently portrayed as queer, so I’ve provided context and resources when warranted.
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ICEMAN
One of the original X-Men, Bobby Drake (AKA Iceman) came out as gay in 2015. While featured in several of the X-Men movies, so far he’s only been portrayed as gay in comics. Here’s hoping the upcoming cinematic re-boot gives Iceman a prominent role… and a boyfriend.
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FUN FACT: Iceman was the first LGBT superhero I introduced to my son. His response? “Cool!”
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POISON IVY | HARLEY QUINN
Poison Ivy and Harley Quinn have been thorns in Batman’s side for years, while hinting of romance along the way. In 2017, their relationship was made official in the pages of DC Comics: Bombshells.
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AQUALAD | AMERICA CHAVEZ | MR. TERRIFIC | NICO MINORU
Recent years have shown a welcome increase of LGBTQ superheroes of color. Those include Aqualad from Teen Titans comics, America Chavez from the pages of Young Avengers and her own comics series, Mister Terrific on the CW’s Arrow, and Nico Minoru on Marvel’s Runaways TV series and in comics.
FUN FACT: America Chavez (AKA Miss America) has two moms!
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CATWOMAN | WONDER WOMAN | MYSTIQUE
Wonder Woman, Catwoman and Mystique are some of the most well-known super-powered women, having made multiple appearances on film and TV. Unfortunately, their bisexuality has been relegated to minimal mentions within the pages of comic books.
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BATWOMAN
Batwoman is an updated version of an earlier female Batman counterpart, predating Batgirl by about five years. Yet this modern iteration clearly and boldly identifies as lesbian in both her comic book series and on the CW’s upcoming Batwoman.
FUN FACT: Batwoman will be the first superhero show centered around an LGBTQ character. The lead role is played by out lesbian, Ruby Rose.
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DEADPOOL | LOKI | HIM
An ambiguously gay trio… Deadpool flirts with any- and everyone in both his not-very-kid-friendly films and comic books. Loki is full of snark and sass in the MCU, but it’s only within the pages of Avengers and Thor comics that the god of mischief switches genders from time to time; HIM is the queerest of the Powerpuff Girls’ nemeses — a gender-bent, effeminate mash-up of Santa and Satan.
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BIRDO | DUMBLEDORE
Birdo first appeared in Mario Bros 2, and has the (oft-debated) distinction of being gaming’s first transgender character. Also the subject of much debate, Dumbledore was outed as gay by author J.K. Rowling in 2007, though he has yet to be portrayed as such in film or on the printed page.
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WICCAN | HULKLING
Probably my favorite super power couple is Wiccan and Hulkling, metahuman boyfriends who battle evil as part of Marvel’s Young Avengers.
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PEARL | KAROLINA DEAN | XAVIN
Pearl shines as a lesbian, non-binary guardian of humanity on Steven Universe. Karolina Dean (a being made of rainbow-colored energy) and Xavin (a shape-shifting, gender-switching alien) are literal star-crossed lovers in Marvel’s Runaways comics and on the TV series of the same name.
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ROY, SILO & TANGO
While not technically superheroes, same-sex penguin couple Roy and Silo are heroes in our house. Their sweet (and true) story of of raising their adopted chick, Tango, can be found in the picture book And Tango Makes Three
RESOURCES
While superheroes are fun and all, the best ways to teach your kids about LGBTQ people is to A) have conversations with them and B) make sure there are queer people in their lives. Using these characters and others like them to explain different families, relationships and identities can be as straightforward and uneventful as teaching them their ABCs.
Here are a few resources for talking to your kids about sexuality, gender, and other LGBTQ-related topics.
• Amaze
• GLSEN
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